Strength is Resilience, not Achievement

 Strength, in four parts, uses imagery to portray a different perspective of what masculinity is. The poem shows that "strength" isn't so much physical strength as it is internal integrity and being able to take pride in oneself regardless of what others think of you. It is about dealing with criticism constructively and using every challenge as an opportunity for growth and self improvement. Strength is not an end destination to be achieved, but a perpetual commitment to a journey. It describes fitness as "not a success, but rather a constant state of failure" (Kaye 98). Fitness is about continuing to apply oneself, even in the perceived absence of results. It is about learning to be resilient with pain and blowback, but not letting it slow you down, rather learning to let it fuel you to try to work harder and be better at what you seek out to accomplish. This is a more positive and productive interpretation of masculinity. Rather than having your value determined by accomplishments and achievements, your value is determined by your resilience and integrity. It is determined by your ability to push through despite challenges, and not let criticism and pain of failure get to you. It is about the journey, not the destination. By pushing through adversity, regardless of what you achieve, you become more "fit." You become more resilient, patient, and capable which ultimately makes you a better, more understanding, and more well-rounded human being. This way you will become more adaptive and increase chances of real success.